Selected excerpts to progressively introduce this rich and old topic to the curious
Tag Archives: shame
‘Work on’ Self, But ‘Fix’ Others
Is the real You a somewhat…? When the hell will You stop trying to work on yourself, and care about other people?
There’s only 1 real sin? (HONESTY part 5 of 5)
You cannot fail at loving your enemies, or you will fail at loving your most intimate loved ones. And, your very own self. (YOU are your worst enemy… and you “know” it.)
The ‘Egology’ of Relationships (HONESTY part 4 of 5)
Repetitive secret retaliation is how resentment and contempt take root and evolve, in the tragic ecosystem (egosystem) of shame.
The misTery of Twelve Step truth requires true love (HONESTY part 3 of 5)
“The truth will set you free,” (John 8:32) and I always feel compelled to add, “But first it will make you miserable.”
Who hurts more: Your partner or you? (HONESTY part 2 of 5)
Loved ones who hurt you deserve blame for hurting you, but they do NOT deserve blame for causing you to hurt them back. Hypocrisy is another imperfection, not an excuse.
