Christmas Carol paradoxes 5 – It Came Upon a Midnight Clear

Wishing we have “ears to hear” above the din of judgmental self-talk

Authenticity, Uniqueness, and Control

We don’t need guidance. We need liberty—to unfold the goodness of who we are.

Shitty blame boardgame

Here’s the game. We each sit on a different side of the gameboard. We all start with an equally-sized pile of blame in front of us. Each time we win a move, we get to move a piece of our pile and “place blame” in front of another player. The winner is the one whoContinue reading “Shitty blame boardgame”

Beware of therapy goals! (1) You’re prey.

The 2 principles central to all authentic therapy and wisdom that sticks: Own from your bones. Worst first.

My love letter to me II

Accused of grave wrongdoing, the reasons rang true to me.

The Shadow. MASTER list of sources annotated

Carl Jung described a person’s subconscious “Shadow” into which they repress conscious knowledge of their self which they don’t like about their self.