In crisis, shoulds and oughts don’t help. Love wins out over guilt any day.
Whom shall I love? “Whichever one needs it most in the moment.” For she or he is the Christface set before me.
No one is transformed by thinking. It is our nature to *relate*, not contain.
“What is your anger enabling, protecting against, or symptomatic of?” Anger involves natural amphetamines and painkillers.