Here’s the game. We each sit on a different side of the gameboard. We all start with an equally-sized pile of blame in front of us. Each time we win a move, we get to move a piece of our pile and “place blame” in front of another player. The winner is the one whoContinue reading “Shitty blame boardgame”
The 2 principles central to all authentic therapy and wisdom that sticks: Own from your bones. Worst first.
In crisis, shoulds and oughts don’t help. Love wins out over guilt any day.
Whom shall I love? “Whichever one needs it most in the moment.” For she or he is the Christface set before me.
No one is transformed by thinking. It is our nature to *relate*, not contain.
“What is your anger enabling, protecting against, or symptomatic of?” Anger involves natural amphetamines and painkillers.