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Shitty blame boardgame

Here’s the game. We each sit on a different side of the gameboard. We all start with an equally-sized pile of blame in front of us. Each time we win a move, we get to move a piece of our pile and “place blame” in front of another player. The winner is the one whoContinue reading “Shitty blame boardgame”

My love letter to me II

Accused of grave wrongdoing, the reasons rang true to me.

There’s only 1 real sin? (HONESTY part 5 of 5)

You cannot fail at loving your enemies, or you will fail at loving your most intimate loved ones. And, your very own self. (YOU are your worst enemy… and you “know” it.)

Who hurts more: Your partner or you? (HONESTY part 2 of 5)

Loved ones who hurt you deserve blame for hurting you, but they do NOT deserve blame for causing you to hurt them back. Hypocrisy is another imperfection, not an excuse.

To believe you are a loving person (HONESTY part 1 of 5)

The power of kind/loving acts is illusory if it rests atop ignorance and/or denial of the unconscious.