The second word in “messiah” includes “me”—“mess.”
Tag Archives: suffering
Elizabeth loving Lizzie
What we most long for when we are feeling alone is not incoming love from others, but instead is someone on whom to pour our outgoing love.
Shitty blame boardgame
Here’s the game. We each sit on a different side of the gameboard. We all start with an equally-sized pile of blame in front of us. Each time we win a move, we get to move a piece of our pile and “place blame” in front of another player. The winner is the one whoContinue reading “Shitty blame boardgame”
Beware of therapy goals! (2) Envy and the Pitfalls of Validation
Wish to be more You, and as you discover that you already are You, disappointment with unachieved goals lightens.
Compassionate Reactions
Suffering evokes compassion from you for others. Why not you?
Beware of therapy goals! (1) You’re prey.
The 2 principles central to all authentic therapy and wisdom that sticks: Own from your bones. Worst first.