Is a larger ‘me’ the glass and fluid? Half… what? The other half… what else? Empty? Full? Twice as big as needed?
You’re unique in all creation, so there’s no objective tests for being your best you. Zero basis for impartial judgment
You cannot fail at loving your enemies, or you will fail at loving your most intimate loved ones. And, your very own self. (YOU are your worst enemy… and you “know” it.)