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“I’m not perfect, but…”

Greatest suffering in closest relating-ships? They agree

Posted byNeil DursoMarch 23, 2023March 23, 2023Posted inBorderline personality, relationshipsTags:compassion, egology, hypocrisy, love, psyche-ology, self-pity, Shadow, shame, suffering, The Shawshank RedemptionLeave a comment on “I’m not perfect, but…”

You can only give what you have

So, why do we promise more? Expect more?

Posted byNeil DursoMarch 11, 2023March 15, 2023Posted inBorderline personality, psychology, reflections on worth, relationships, soulTags:contentment, ego, egology, egosystem, honesty, hypocrisy, in the moment, our nature, psyche-ology, reality, self-deception, shame, suffering, the SelfLeave a comment on You can only give what you have

“Be Strong” – Chrome-Plated Plastic. Hypocrisy

Acting strong won’t keep others from messing with you

Posted byNeil DursoJanuary 20, 2023January 20, 2023Posted inknowing, mystery, psychology, reflections on worth, relationships, soulTags:Brene Brown, compassion, darkness, ego, egology, empathy, forgiveness, honesty, humility, hypocrisy, love, self-deception, Shadow, shame, suffering, the Self, transformationLeave a comment on “Be Strong” – Chrome-Plated Plastic. Hypocrisy

Worthy Because You’re You

You’re not worthy for any reason. Any could be lost

Posted byNeil DursoJanuary 9, 2023January 11, 2023Posted inpsychology, reflections on worth, relationships, religion, soulTags:Brene Brown, Brennan Manning, egology, psyche-ology, religion, self-pity, the SelfLeave a comment on Worthy Because You’re You

Love Letter to My Ego (3 of 3)

Ego inflation/deflation = the beating heart of being

Posted byNeil DursoJanuary 6, 2023January 4, 2023Posted inpsychology, reflections on worth, relationships, soulTags:compassion, ego, egology, egosystem, John Paul II, judgement (judgment), love, loveletter, our nature, Richard Rohr, self-deception, self-pity, shame, suffering, the SelfLeave a comment on Love Letter to My Ego (3 of 3)

Love Letter to My Ego (2 of 3)

Ego defenses, codependency, identity loss

Posted byNeil DursoJanuary 5, 2023January 6, 2023Posted inpsychology, reflections on worth, relationships, soulTags:compassion, ego, egology, egosystem, John Paul II, judgement (judgment), love, loveletter, our nature, Richard Rohr, self-deception, self-pity, shame, suffering, the SelfLeave a comment on Love Letter to My Ego (2 of 3)

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