You think self judgment and punishment are going to achieve love—but show me where?
Author Archives: Neil Durso
Back to school
A 9th-grader shared some wonderful reflections that made me think of a poster this student shared with me a couple years ago: So I replied: “I believe it delights God that every single one of God’s children has their own beliefs. If God wished us all to believe exactly the same things, that would beContinue reading “Back to school”
He is GoodStuff. Superhero
How he empowers all of us to laugh at ourselves. Super. Power.
“Both Sides Now” Blue Devils
I’ve looked at clouds from both sides now | I really don’t know clouds at all
Pressure on ourselves. Ego
Our egos are conditioned to pin down people, including our very own selves.
In relationships, “settling” is a bad word
In relationships, settling is a bad word… so we often live in denial, and instead believe in, or chase, a dream free of any demand that we settle for an imperfect mate. Or we measure ourselves against that dream as failures, and wonder if there is greener grass elsewhere. So some partners cheat. Others mayContinue reading “In relationships, “settling” is a bad word”
