Stitching together some seemingly unrelated sentiments I heard lately… I can’t, or don’t want to be, grateful for my pain. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Gratitude for a poisonous person. What an intriguing paradox. Are we not supposed to be grateful only for “good” things? I woke up and forgave them. I think becauseContinue reading “Thanksgiving Heart Stitches”
Author Archives: Neil Durso
Words and labels in relationship psychology
In relationship vocabulary, concise does not mean precise
Protected: J’s Problem
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Coal-miner Egos Beyond Hollywood
A part of me wonders how much and how often a self-serving cognitive bias leads me to perceive my contributions to this world with distorted grandiosity. An inflated ego. I maintain that the ego is, in and of itself, a neutral and necessary sensor of our separateness from other agents in the world. It informsContinue reading “Coal-miner Egos Beyond Hollywood”
The power of change. Nietzsche, Jung, Rohr
The power *of* change, not *to* change
The power of change
The power OF change is so much larger than the power TO change
Feel with Neil 