Whom shall I love? “Whichever one needs it most in the moment.” For she or he is the Christface set before me.
Forget “One day at a time,” or, “Live in the moment,” if you aren’t up to them… What IS naturally human is relationship. Relate to one Christface at a time. As each comes.
You’re unique in all creation, so there’s no objective tests for being your best you. Zero basis for impartial judgment
You cannot fail at loving your enemies, or you will fail at loving your most intimate loved ones. And, your very own self. (YOU are your worst enemy… and you “know” it.)